The shocking murder of 23-year-old Iryna Zarutska, a Ukrainian refugee who fled her homeland in search of safety, has shaken North Carolina and sparked outrage across the country, especially as details emerge about how her accused killer was previously released despite a long record of arrests. On August 22, 2025, Iryna was riding a train in Charlotte when she was brutally stabbed in what police have called an unprovoked attack.
The suspect, 34-year-old Decarlos Brown Jr., was quickly arrested and charged with first-degree murder, but his bizarre defense—that “materials” inside his body somehow caused him to lash out—only deepened the anger felt by her loved ones and the public. Just before her death, Iryna had sent a simple text to her boyfriend saying she would be home soon, unaware that her life would be stolen before she had the chance to return. Her devastated family released a statement describing their heartbreak, writing that she had come to America to find peace and safety and instead was taken from them in the most horrific way. Her obituary revealed a life of resilience and hard work.
In 2022, she fled Ukraine with her mother, brother, and sister to escape Russia’s invasion. Once in Charlotte, she worked full-time at a local pizzeria while also attending community college to improve her English, determined to build a future for herself. Her attorney described her as kind, hardworking, and deeply loved, someone who embodied the promise of starting over in a new country. The tragedy hit hardest for her boyfriend, 21-year-old Stanislav “Stas” Nikulytsia, who had been living with her in Charlotte for the past year. He rushed to the station the night of the attack only to discover she had already died. Days later, he broke his silence by posting a tender photo of them together with nothing more than a broken heart emoji, a raw and simple expression of grief that touched many who saw it.
As his grief turned to anger, he began reposting videos online criticizing Magistrate Judge Teresa Stokes, the official who released Brown on cashless bail just months before the murder despite his long record as a repeat offender. Many, including Stas, believe that decision cost Iryna her life. North Carolina House Speaker Tim Moore echoed that outrage, calling the system’s failure undeniable. He said Iryna had come to Charlotte for safety and a better life but was instead murdered by someone who should never have been free. Moore called Judge Stokes “unfit” for her position and demanded her immediate removal, stressing that she had the chance to protect the public and chose not to.
The public anger grew even stronger when Brown’s troubled past came into sharper focus. Reports revealed that he had been arrested 14 times prior to the killing, a record that painted a picture of instability and violence. In January, Judge Stokes had released him on nothing more than a written promise that he would appear for his next court date, a decision that critics say demonstrated dangerous leniency. Brown’s own family had raised alarms. His mother admitted that she had tried to have him involuntarily committed to a psychiatric hospital after his behavior became violent, but her efforts failed. His sister Tracey later described him as a paranoid schizophrenic after visiting him in jail following the stabbing.
She recalled how he muttered to himself and then told her cryptically, “I have to get you to,” before accusing his family of being trafficked by the government. These disturbing details suggest that the warning signs were visible long before Iryna’s death, raising painful questions about why more wasn’t done to prevent him from being free in the community. For Iryna’s family and her boyfriend, the loss is immeasurable. She had survived the trauma of war, only to lose her life in the very place she thought would offer her peace. Her family’s attorney put it simply but powerfully: “That night, she texted her boyfriend that she would be home soon. Tragically, her journey ended in violence near the Camden light rail station.”
Now her name has become a symbol of both personal tragedy and systemic failure. The case has prompted calls for reform, with many demanding stricter bail policies, greater accountability for judges, and better resources to handle mentally ill offenders before they can commit acts of violence. While no changes can undo what happened, the outrage surrounding Iryna’s murder has fueled a broader conversation about how justice systems must balance compassion with responsibility and how protecting the public must remain at the forefront. For Stas, her family, and those who followed her story, the grief is compounded by the belief that her death was preventable. Iryna came to the United States with hope for a better life, but instead, she became a victim of failures both personal and institutional, leaving behind a story that is as heartbreaking as it is infuriating.